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Personally i believe that the words  " miss " & " love " are used to casualy in meaning or conversation . Because if the words are truely ment they are overpoweringly strong .Then as humans we shutdown & turn numb ,emotionless . We try to avoid missing something because we cannot deal with it .Which makes one wonder  is it better to truely miss something or turn numb ; to embrasse the pain because it shows you that you acualy care about something ,reminds you what it means to you .Whereas if you are emotionless you might forget why you cared at all .Their is no balance present & unstabile is a solid word .
K